10 Reasons why the Small Church is and always will be BIG!
I have heard enough bad news and I just can’t take it anymore. I want to share some good news for a change about the church. And this time it is to bring attention to a little known fact about small churches. They get a bum rap for being small and they are picked on for being outdated or passé. But in reality denominations should be looking at the small church and learning from them. These churches will surprise many because they will still be there when the megachurches have faded away. What is so special about small churches and why are they still around today? Here are ten reasons why the small church is and always will be BIG.
I have heard enough bad news and I just can’t take it anymore. I want to share some good news for a change about the church. And this time it is to bring attention to a little known fact about small churches. They get a bum rap for being small and they are picked on for being outdated or passé. But in reality denominations should be looking at the small church and learning from them. These churches will surprise many because they will still be there when the megachurches have faded away. What is so special about small churches and why are they still around today? Here are ten reasons why the small church is and always will be BIG.
The small church is:
1.
Personal
The old TV show cliché is true-the small
church is a place to go where everyone knows your name. Perhaps that’s
uncomfortable for some who want to slide into a pew unnoticed, do their worship
thing with God and then go home. It is impossible for that kind of church experience
to happen in the small church. You will be noticed and people will know your
name. And what greater Biblical blessing could there be than to walk into
worship and know that the people, just like God, know you and love you. We have
a God who through the incarnation is very real and very present with us. The
small church is an example of the social nature of God-truly one on one, and in
the midst of community. The people in the small church know your hang ups and
your greatness. And they love you know matter what. (The redemptive work of
Jesus at work). You are needed. You are wanted. You are valued. In the small
church it is very personal and that makes all the difference.
In the small church:
2.
Patterns are
important
Small church members are committed to
showing up. They are the faithful that realize their faith in God grows from
week to week as they are present in the pew and present with one another. Small
church people know that when they are not there it makes a difference and it is
noticed.
They are people of patterns.
Small church people believe God has a job to
do and so they fulfill their part of the job by being consistent, giving of
themselves and their gifts (talents & financial) regularly. They know that
they are a small part of the puzzle of Christ’s Kingdom. Therefore when it
looks like small churches are insignificant to the big picture, small churches
know they are making a difference day after day, little by little, one step at
a time, consistently generation after generation, and in the long run this IS
significant.
3.
Stories count
The small church knows how to use God
language and Jesus language and it’s not afraid to do so. Because of the
personal relationships and the intimacy of the group, people openly share
testimonies of how God has moved in their lives. They remember the people who
made a difference from generation to generation. In other words, the saints of
the church who have gone before them are still present in the life of the church
through the stories told about them. The stories told about growing up in the
church and how Aunt Martha made a difference in the life of the children
through her one on one Sunday school lessons. Or, how a teen’s life was changed
because everyone in the church knew his name and they were present when he went
through a tough time in school. The stories bind the Body of Christ closer
together than any megachurch relationship could ever hope to do.
4.
Linked to the
community
Small churches are often in small towns.
And the small towns rely on the missions of the small churches to help those in
need. The soup kitchens, afterschool activities, clothing and food pantries, assistance
to the homeless could not be done in these small towns without the diligent
work of the volunteers of the small churches. The mayor, police chief, the judge,
and the fire chief fully support the actions of the small churches to build up
the community. There is a positive and strong relationship between the church
and the community and its officials.
5.
Resilient OR in
other words they have Spiritual vitality-
Small churches have seen plenty of tough
times. Most of them will recite a time when they almost had to close. But, they
held strong in faith and gave every last ounce of what they had to either, ‘go
out with every last effort’ or to ‘bounce back stronger than before’. They will
openly describe how prayer made a difference in the resurrection of new life in
the congregation. They will talk about how God wanted them to stay open and how
through some miracle activity it happened. They will openly talk about other
tough times that caused them to draw together and rely on each other more than
ever before. They will talk about how these connections created stronger ties
to one another. These times helped them become fully reliant on God and
therefore they trust God in all circumstances. Being part of a congregation
with this kind of spiritual vitality is BIG.
6.
Intergenerational
Small churches take Baptismal vows
seriously. When the congregation vows to raise up children in the Lord, they
are there every step of the way. The children grow up looking to each member as
a parent, cousin, aunt, uncle, and grandparent. The whole church is involved
with each other. The covenant vow is a perpetual commitment to all God’s
people. Children who grew up in the church will continue to worship there with
their own children even if they have to drive 30 miles or more. The connections
among the members last a lifetime. Church fellowship activities involve the
whole church. There aren’t singles groups or young married couple groups. There
aren’t senior groups either. Small churches have fellowship activities that involve
the whole church and the elderly get to know the little ones. The young adults
know the retired folks and they can relate well to each other. The
intergenerational church grows up as well rounded and versatile people. And in
a world today where people are so isolated because of their electronics and
jobs this is refreshing news. Be part of a small church and be enriched by
these diverse relationships.
7.
Size counts
In the small church size counts a lot. You
may wonder what I mean by that. People matter more than numbers, so in that
respect size counts. Also, the attitude that bigger is not always better goes a
long way in the small church. A lot of creativity happens in the small church.
For a few dollars a Christmas pageant is put together even with just three
children! Tears flow as the little ones sing in front of a congregation of
twenty people. The event, the moment, is marked and etched in the forever story
of the church.
A parishioner can stand up in church on a Sunday
to say there is a need (a neighbor’s fence blew over in a storm) and before
worship is ended a crew is ready to go and help.
Size counts and often more is done in less
time than in a large church setting. I remember a small church hearing about
the need of shoes for children in an orphanage. This congregation took to
mission like ducks take to water. Within three weeks this tiny congregation
came forth bearing 500 pairs of shoes!! Size counts because powerful things happen
in and through small churches.
8.
Flexible
Small churches have learned how to be flexible,
adaptable and risk takers in all circumstances. Because of the small size
flexibility is possible to work with individual needs. An elderly member unable
to climb the stairs to the sanctuary goes through the back door where the ramp
is. Sometimes he is unable to be on time for the service to start. The
congregation leaders alert the pastor that he is on his way in and the pastor
waits a few extra minutes to start the service. How powerful it is as this
member senses God’s love surrounding him as he is included because the
congregation has adapted to his needs.
Small churches also take risks, sometimes
big ones that large churches would never dare to do. Their stewardship is of
the Kingdom and often they are more willing to let go of funds and empty their
pockets for a spontaneous need or mission. They have amazing trust in God in
these things because they have witnessed first-hand how God has brought them
through troubled times and troubled waters.
9.
Know how to have fun
Small churches know how to be spontaneous
and go out together for lunch. They know how to call people together for a last
minute game night or a BBQ. It doesn’t take a lot of planning to put together a
hayride or a bowling afternoon. Small churches take their fellowship coffee
hour seriously and use it as a chance to catch up on the news of those they
haven’t seen during the week. The simple things are the moments that make
lasting memories.
Announcements in church about the birth of
a new grandbaby are big news and a moment of rejoicing for all. Anyone can
stand up at prayer time and ask for prayers. People willingly and openly weep
and laugh with each other. The joy of the Lord is fully present and the
overtone of the people is happiness.
10. Small
is BIG in every way.
In summary, the small church is BIG
in every way! “For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members
of the body though many, are one body, so it is with Christ” The small church
lives this out every day! Paul was clear about the need to rely on one another for
the ministry of Jesus to continue, and the small church ‘gets it’! They are
fully aware that the Church of Jesus Christ and their corner of the world of
His Church is dependent on them to do their part as the hands and feet of
Jesus.
So, take a look around you. Take a second
look and remember if you are looking for a church home, the small church might
be the very place you will find your true home.