Showing posts with label bitter. Show all posts
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Monday, July 24, 2017

New Life

While the women in the congregation have stated-we've heard so much about Ruth in all our women's Bible studies, the men have shared they know very little about the story of Ruth. It seems women's studies have done overkill on Ruth-poor Ruth. Conclusion-there is an imbalance in our men and women Bible studies. What do you think? Here is the last in this year's sermon series on Ruth. Enjoy.

Sermon Ruth 4:7-17 July 23, 2017 4 of 4 in Ruth series.

New Life

I’m ridiculously happy (I love this story) about sharing the final chapter of the story of Ruth with you today. It is a story that represents the abundance of joy that comes through salvation. It’s a story that describes salvation-or I should probably say redemption, because that is the word used throughout this tale-as an occurrence not just for an individual but for an entire people.
The gospel of John, in the New Testament, begins with the fullness of God’s love for us. We are told that nothing came into being without God in Jesus Christ. In him was life and the life was the light of all people. ..and..16-from his fullness we have received grace upon grace.
It is in the light of my New Testament lenses that I look back to this fourth chapter of Ruth. New life through the fullness of grace upon grace represents the abundance of love.

In this final chapter of Ruth all this abundance of grace, of love, of new life and restoration, renewal, redemption, salvation become a reality. In this story we discover the nature of God’s love in the relationship of Ruth to Naomi. No matter how far Naomi pushed Ruth away, Ruth was unrelenting in her love and faithfulness to Naomi. No matter how often in our lives that we reject God-we can be sure that God is ever faithful to stick with us no matter how we treat him. We will continue to receive God’s unmerited love for us no matter what. We will continue to be surrounded by others who reach out to us on God’s behalf-whether they know it or not-to extend a hand of grace.

We have this funny idea that our salvation, our redemption, is some kind of reward for those people who are faithful to God. Ruth was faithful to Naomi and committed to obey and follow her advice. So, we assume in response to ‘how good’ Ruth was, God rewarded her and restored her life. We could read that into the story with that kind of a lens. But, I’d like to suggest that the authors of this story clearly did not have this interpretation in mind.

Let’s look at what has happened-briefly.
Boaz gathers at the gate with elders-which is a way of saying he convened court. The ‘other’ relative to whom he engages is not named. He is ‘so-and-so’ because as it turns out in the story he is unwilling to completely fulfil his legal obligation. The purpose of the court is to put a contract on the property-buy the property-restore the clan/family.
Side bar-women could inherit, own, sell and buy property. But, since Naomi left during the famine it probably fell into the hands of so-and-so and she has to reclaim it. Boaz tells so-and-so that he has to buck up and do his legal duty. He shames him by telling him he can’t have the land without the lady. Worse he tells so-and-so that even if he doesn’t do his duty, he-Boaz, will step in, marry Ruth, present an heir to Elimelech and take the land back anyway. If that happens so-and-so will be out land and lose the money he used to buy it.

Business transaction were sealed with a sandal. Taking off the shoe meant you were giving up your rights to redeem and the obligation passed on to the next of kin in line.

Here is where I find the intertwining of the power of God’s grace in the actions of people remarkable.
It’s not that what we do earns us anything.
But, it is what we do that God uses to shape a people for good.

Boaz didn’t have to do anything.
He didn’t have to offer kindness,
or even go to the extent of being an instrument of redemption.
But, God used him and his actions are glorified in print.
In the power of the willingness of a person to act,
the power of God’s grace breaks through.

Boaz follows through on his promise to name the child to Naomi’s husband. By doing this Naomi is now legally, figuratively, and faithfully restored.
His actions make possible the new life for the family.


New life is restored to Naomi not through the literal resurrection of her husband, but through the resurrection of his inheritance in the newborn child. Our lives are probably better reflected in the life of Naomi than the one of Ruth.

Naomi was a woman who had it all and then lost it all. She became bitter in her grief and bitter toward God. As events unfold and choices are made, gracious circumstances occur in ‘happenstance’ sort of ways. In these moments, we witness the beginning of healing in the faith of Naomi. As she heals, she hopes, as she hopes, she blesses, and as she blesses, she recognizes her life turning around-she witnesses the face of a new direction.

Now Ruth is not to be diminished for her role in all of this. Yes, her life was one of faith and commitment. We do want to try to be faithful to God and people.

But, let us also be reminded of God’s action of salvation through the people we least expect.
-if our eyes are to be opened to newness
-if our eyes are to be opened to restoration
-is our eyes are to be opened to fulfillment, sustenance, and nourishment-and all of what God has to offer;
Then we have to be willing to let those ‘others’ into our lives and into our churches, and into our villages with a full embrace and an extension of true love.
Because we never know when God will use a Moabite, or a Ninevite, or a stranger, or a foreigner, or a ‘not like us’, or an ‘other’ to be the vessel of our salvation.

The women of the village are the undergirding of the impact of God’s wonderful, abundant grace. If it wasn’t for the words of these villagers, this story would just be about a nice guy who goes to court and makes good things happen for a family.

But these women announce the absolute joy that has transpired for Naomi.
She has completely turned around.
They bless her fullness of spirit-her soul has been restored.
Redemption isn’t about stuff.
Redemption is the fulfillment of one’s being. It’s about new life!
A village embraces a woman who has lost everything.
A village comes out to greet a lost and bitter soul.
A village embraces and loves and realizes the power of God at work.
It is the village who blesses in the abundance of God’s grace.
 It is the village who rejoices in the salvation of one lost soul restored to new life.
Let the church be the village that does the same.
Amen.



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Monday, June 26, 2017

Love & Loyalty

Sermon Ruth 1:1-19 June 25, 2017 Ordinary Time

Love & Loyalty

Love, commitment, joy, sweetness, are all the wonders we hear when people get married. June & July are the months that seem to be alive with weddings and anniversary celebrations. In our own two congregations, we have each had the pleasure of celebrating a nuptial in our sanctuaries.
I think we are still fascinated with weddings.
We witness all the froo froo and just enjoy watching two people make a commitment to each other and then seal it with their vows.
I often ask couples who have been together for years,
why they even want to get married when they’ve proven their commitment through the way have lived their lives together.
Their response is most often the desire to make their commitment public-to ‘seal the deal’, so to speak. Living together through commitment is one things but, making vows to each other are clearly another thing altogether.
Whether people believe in God or not,
God is present wherever vows are made.
Marriage vows, whether in a church, a courthouse,
a field somewhere, are made before God.
Vows are binding.
Vows are not to be made lightly.
They are for a lifetime-unless one partner breaks the vow-and that’s a whole other story-they are what seals us, and sticks us like a magnet to the other.
In this story, Ruth makes a vow to Naomi-it is one we’ve often heard at weddings. The story behind those words is worth your time learning about. And that is what we will do beginning today.

The story of Ruth is really the story about Naomi.
 It is a story about turning.
It is a story about God’s impact and influence in the lives of others.
It is about grace and mercy. It is about a woman who suffers so much, without the possibility of rising above the miserable circumstances which have befallen her.


Naomi had nothing to do with the tragedy that came upon her.
We are often so quick to judge and this story puts calamity in perspective.

Sometimes horrible things happen to ordinary, regular people. ‘It is what it is.’

Naomi, with her husband, moved from her homeland to a foreign country to find food. During difficult times, people seek to find the way to turn their circumstances around. Sometimes it’s through a move, a change of jobs, or a change of environment. To turn in a new direction and to leave behind everything is a challenge in itself. Naomi and her husband Elimelech did just that.


They lived as foreigners in the land of Moab. While there her sons married. They were there for more than ten years. Then within a short period of time all the men died.

Tangent: While Ruth is part of the lineage to King David and therefore also the lineage to Jesus, the story seems to also be a significant parable. Because in the telling of the story the names of the characters signify their fate-Mahlon means sickness, and Chillion means failure. However, Elimelech means, God is my King.

Naomi was left a widow and a childless mother.

Her daughter in laws were also childless. So, here in this foreign place to which Naomi had turned and moved to with the intent to build a new life, has now left her utterly alone with no future. So, she struggles with what to do. In a culture that is not your own, it is really difficult to navigate problems and solutions. Naomi has heard that things had improved in her homeland and so she turns and faces the place from which she came. She decides to go back to Bethlehem and the customs she understand for widows. She still has a relative left alive so she chooses to go to his house and rely on the Jewish custom of caring for the family.

All of us here have moved at one time or another.
We know what it’s like to pick up and all of our belongings and plunk down in a new place.
It’s hard.
Even if the move was to something exciting and wonderful, it is still hard.
Even if the move was just down the street from the old house, it is still like starting over because the neighbors are different and new relationships have to be built.
Naomi’s decision to move in the first place was for survival because of famine.
Now her decision to move is again based on survival.
This time because of culture.
As a woman, she could not be independent and was required to be under the protection of a male.
As she is thrown into another survival situation her heart turns bitter.

She is bitter to her circumstances,
she is bitter to her surroundings,
she is bitter toward her God.

She cannot see any good in her life.

And this is where the grace of God enters into the life of Naomi through the words of a woman who worships other gods.
Here in this beautiful story is the beginning of how one woman’s emptiness is turned to hope, and then to fullness.
As you go home today and read this short Old Testament story you discover the power of God at work in the people that surround Naomi. Four short chapters.

God is in the business of constantly surprising us through the grace and mercy offered in unimaginable ways.
Naomi had her way set and turned toward Bethlehem.
In her bitterness, she cuts off the very people who love her. Her daughter in laws adore her and only want to stay with her. But, she sends them away hoping for them they can begin a new life with another husband. Orpah obeys her and leaves. But, Ruth, as stubborn as she is, disobeys.
In our lives we do the same, we get so caught up in our grief, or our bitterness, or our hurt, that we cut off and cut out the very people who love us most.

I’ve heard it asked by some special folks over the years,
Why do people stop coming to church when they experience hardship?
Isn’t church the very place where people love and support you through the hard times?’
In our emotional turmoil of things, we tend to behave in some crazy ways.




It’s in times like those that we need a Ruth in our life.
We need a Ruth to ignore our ever so rational and logical statements and tell us like it is.
We need a Ruth to hold on tighter to us when we try to shake her off and get her out of our life.
We need a Ruth to grab us around the waist and hold on to us saying she will never let us go.
We need a Ruth to say she loves us forever, she loves us no matter what we say to her, she loves us even if we try to leave her.
We need a Ruth in our lives who makes a vow to bind herself to us.
Friends, I hope more than anything, that we the church, can be the Ruth for those who need a Ruth in their lives.

We have a job to do.
Let us be faithful for those who struggle to be faithful.
Let us be faithful to those whose lives need a binding.
Let us be faithful even when we are pushed aside.
Let us be the lineage that holds firm to a future we don’t even know.


Let us learn how to be Ruth for the world. Amen.